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Slow the cycle, listen beneath the reaction, and rebuild the emotional safety that makes honest connection possible.

Licensed couples therapy · Gottman certified
Evidence-based relationship therapy meets presence-centered personal growth—helping couples interrupt old patterns, communicate with clarity, and create a more conscious way of being together.
Where relationship science meets awareness
Conscious Coupling brings together Gottman-informed methods with perspectives on consciousness, personal responsibility, and emotional growth influenced by Dr. Shefali, Eckhart Tolle, and Gary Zukav. The work is both grounded and expansive: learn what to do differently, while understanding who you are becoming together.
Slow the cycle, listen beneath the reaction, and rebuild the emotional safety that makes honest connection possible.
Pair Gottman-informed relationship skills with deeper awareness of the patterns, beliefs, and protective responses shaping your bond.
Practice new ways of relating with responsibility, presence, compassion, and a shared vision for the partnership you want to create.
How we work
Licensed therapeutic support for communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, transitions, and recurring relationship patterns.
Focused work for couples seeking dedicated time to understand a stuck cycle and establish a clear path forward.
Guided learning that strengthens emotional awareness, repair skills, shared meaning, and intentional partnership.
Alyn Chenillo
Conscious Coupling was founded by Alyn Chenillo, a licensed couples therapist and Gottman-certified clinician. Her integrative approach helps couples work with both the visible relationship problem and the deeper inner patterns beneath it.
“The relationship can become a place where both people learn to connect, expand, and evolve.”
Connect. Expand. Evolve.
Conscious Coupling Institute provides licensed couples therapy, relationship intensives, and conscious relationship education.
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